Really? Hours to days? Dang man... I'm not sure what you are doing wrong there, but you are doing something wrong apparently. I can get a group going in minutes on my server, no matter what faction I am on. How many people are having this issue?
Regarding the OP, I have not used my holodancer in forever, but I will log in and check to see if it is in fact bugged. If it is, I will bug report it too.
I play on The red Eclipse, and i ask in general chat, sometimes in my guild. And how can you speak for all the servers and all the planets