Guys. I found the solution to this issue as a temporary workaround. Its ridiculous, but clearly whatever they changed last patch has screwed with network code or somehow stepped backwards in how the game is run to change / fix issues others had while introducing new problems like 4001.
All you have to do is this:
Right click the launcher.exe on your desktop
Go to properties
Click the tab called 'Compatibility'
check the box
Make sure Win XP SP3 is in the dropdown
See image example: http://img819.imageshack.us/img819/2667/compat.jpg
For whatever reason, this works. I could not see a server list at all until this was done.
Bioware rep: My workaround doesn't really solve the issue. It is just a bandaid for something that is clearly wrong. I suggest you forward this information to the right people so they can see why its working in a compat mode for some users and others on WIN7 64 its no issue.