The WHY has been explained in prior posts, so where is the WHERE and WHO!
Well in on the European English-speaking servers, we're on Trask Ulgo
It's an RP server but we don't enforce RP. We just all agree we prefer the atmosphere on RP servers in general, and Trask is a decent place
Anyone wanting an LGBT-friendly EU/UK guild, check out Scions of Aurora/Scions of Penumbra.