I don't raid, hated them and always have done even in the EQ days I never done one raid. I just want to use it for grouped content which is so easy and I've never died with any group because it is impossible. SWTOR is like on easy mode right now and you could have the worst group in the world and still finish the content.
I just want a LFG tool like WoW has so I can find a group for a dungeon automatically, get warped there, do the content and get on with the game. I'm not interested in a chat, I really couldn't care less about other players, I would rather solo it if I could, I just want to do the content!
This is a game, not a chat room...
Sounds like you probably should avoid MMO's altogether.