First of there are no inocent sand people.
They will kill outsiders no mather what age or gender they are.
I think it is already very clear that most people(including me) dont like that anakin was a whiny brat in the prequal's while vadar was accauly competent.
Also padme died because she lost the will to live.
Now i know you believe haters refuse to believe that is possibol but it is.
What i dont get is why anakin fell in love with a wemon twice his age(i mean the reverse is less icky)
she was only 5 years older than him