First of there are no inocent sand people.
They will kill outsiders no mather what age or gender they are.
I think it is already very clear that most people(including me) dont like that anakin was a whiny breat in the prequal's with vadar accauly appreach competent.
Also padme died because she lost the will to live.
Now i know you believe haters refuse to believe that is possibol but it is.
What i dont get is why anakin fell in love with a wemon twice his age(i mean the reverse is less icky)
Since when has age mattered? IRL people have fallen in love with one of them being 10 years younger then they are.