You obivously have not played many MMO's from launch, WoW is the worst offender when it comes to server stability and patches.
I remember not being able to log into the game for the first 5days. then 4months down the road being mid fight in molten core getting random d/c and then having to wait in a 500+que. i could keep going but it'd be pointless, you will not understand because you have already made your ultimatum.
I throughly enjoy the game but i do hope they fix some of the lag issues.
get off your high horse and smell the roses.