Has the game launched? No? Then you have no basis - none - to assert you have been lied to on this issue. Early access may well have been promised. Earliest access, so far as I am aware, was not. Should people not get in for another 5 days, that's STILL early (pre-launch) access.
Just because you didn't get what you are now wanting, does not in any way mean you aren't getting what you, point of fact, paid for.