We did it too! You are not the only one. He (Moodi) is a tank. I (Avlurks) am a healer. We met playing swtor. And while we've only met once irl (for 3 heavenly weeks) we decided that in spirit (aka in game) we should be married. The exact same place on Voss at the Step of Harmony. All our guild/s came to watch us and enjoy the moment. Eventually we'll put the video up on youtube once we are done editing. You're not alone! <3

I gotta admit, I'm proud to be one of those 'weird' people you meet in groupfinder queues. Generally speaking, I'm queued with my pet tank...A burly male juggy who's full kit is in the hot pink and purple dye setup. My lovely sorc healer is dressed to match in pink and purple! We are crazy, to the point it usually causes a wipe per fp/op. Usually when i force speed ahead while they're still killing stuff. He's so well geared I dont have to heal and i get bored xD. Even better on my operative, since i can stealth out and troll him like a boss. We are both very talkative in group chat, to the point that we accuse each other of causing trouble. It works beautifully since we're in different guilds. But hey, the way we look at it, hopefully it brightens someone's day!

I'm always amused by the arguement of 'ideal' classes for the job. My experience, from the 100 odd wipes I had with dilih before the servers decided to regularly boot me was this: It's not about the class it's about the player. Asa was there on our 6% wipe... as dps. So dont tell me sorc dps doesn't cut it because he doesn't have enough. He had plenty. Not to mention the fact that sorcs can bubble doom. So you dont even have to STOP dpsing when you get it (unlike marauders, juggys, mercs, operatives, sins etc). Snipers are the same deal. You call them fotm, i call them convenient composition. And while everyone is hating on Lace's juggy dps I dont think i should have to point out the sheer skill he has as a player greatly outweighs the fact that his class is percieved as 'not optimal dps'. There is so much positioning, repositioning, running for your life, popping defensive cooldowns and having minor heart attacks every 2s in that fight that your dummy parses mean completely f-a. If you asked Syrra how often he got a full merc rotation off before having to move i bet he could probably count them on his fingers. And i imagine if you asked Maloney and Emi the amount of times they had series of shots or whatever other snipery stuff is required (you can tell my sniper is not 55 huh) interrupted by the necessity to roll or move they'd run out of fingers and toes. If you've made the effort with gearing up your raid group you will clear this. With dedication, time, and understanding of the fight, no matter who you put in there. It took us 2 days to reliably reach p3. And even then half the time it felt like luck of the draw. If you cant accept the fact that sometimes you are going to get unlucky and wipe... or that the fight will take dedication and the ultimate concentration on -every- raid member's behalf the I wouldn't recommend hitting your head on the wall repeatedly. (You're just losing brain cells for no reason).

I am devestated. But I love you guys all the same. Still i feel a bit as though i worked my *** off for nothing. But hey, YOU KILLED IT! Talk about having torn feelings. *sigh*

I respec a lot in pvp from healing to concealment and back depending on team makeup and what we're up against etc. I love to heal in crouch/cover. Sadly, every time i respec my healing skills that are part of the tree (surg probe, nanotech etc) disappear from it. When going from healing to concealment it's no issue (coz i wont be using cover anyways!)... But going back from concealment to healing does prove some issues when i enter cover and then realise (usually an ahh crap moment) that half of my heals are missing from my hotkeys. So is there a way to force them to stay on the crouch bar? Even when i'm not specced for them. And dont say lock the skill bar... because it doesn't work. xD