I am playing on Tomb of Freedon Nadd (the highest populated PvP server in EU atm). I get 4-5-6h queues when I get home at 4-5pm GMT.
If you got an iOS/android phone, you can do this little trick: remote desktop connection from phone, to your home computer (it has to be turned on ofc) and log in the game 2-3h before you reach home.
How do you do that? I recommend the following apps: Splashtop for iOS, androidVNC for android phones.
There are lots of guides on google and youtube how to do this, so go on It takes 30 mins or less to set up stuff. And don't tell me you don't have a smartphone, they are giving them for free nowadays.
a little tip: if you have a router and not a straight away internet connection, you need to forward the 5500, 5800 and 5900 ports to your local IP. If you have an ISP that likes to change your IP everytime you start your computer, no-ip.com is your friend.
Good luck!