Guys, I get that you've been playing with it that way for a while, and I respect that you guys are ok with it.
From my point of view it is a band-aid fix for an obvious problem that has been an issue since group finders became a thing.
There has to be a more elegant way to do this that doesn't involve breaking the group finder and putting hp clickies at each boss. 30 min queues would be a pain, I get that. FF14 for instance has 15-20 min queues for DPS, but at the same time their system allows you to do all of the content in the manner it was designed to be done in.
I do quite like this game, and it bothers me greatly that their solution to long queues is so poor. It really detracts from the experience.