In what universe does your guild, your specific group of friends and your one server, equal as 97% of the player base? That's the most retarded thing I've ever heard, and an outlandish hyperbole such as that basically discredits the rest of what you say.
I've waited two years for an Arcann romance, and if I were to have it denied now by salty players would be infuriating. I want a lot of the other things you mentioned too, except the pvp content. In all the years I've been playing swtor, I've never once played pvp, and I don't intend to ever, I play purely for story and remain subscribed for the story, but I don't think I have ever had the idea or urge to post on a forum and demand for the developers to stop making content I dislike, becuase I understand there are many who do like it.
Just don't play what you don't like, it's not rocket science. Why try to make those of us who have been waiting a long time for this, as miserable as you are?