My main has always been an inq, and I always felt like it was wrong to not be able to turn Ashara to the dark side, especially as she was the only romance option for a male inq. Playing a DS Inq and having a LS companion was just jarring. I do agree should have had the option to kill her on the reunion, or force her to join if you wanted, there is NO WAY a DS inq would have let her stand up to him/her like that.