So I've tanked before in other games, generally on the side, not usually as my primary character. I never had a problem with it, so I'd put my skill at 'competent' not necessarily pro, or primary guild tank. I've done fine, but I've got some questions on what others are doing in this game.
Obviously I know I need to pickup the Elite (Gold) mobs, but in many pulls I find it very difficult to pickup up all the other mobs (silvers and regulars) esp when they are spread out. Given that most mobs are ranged, it's hard to get them to bunch up. If I try to too much, then I risk losing aggro on the Gold mob(s). All of this causes the combats to feel a bit 'squirly', but then again, perhaps they were meant to be like that. They are definitely more interesting.
Now generally anyone in the party can take getting hit by reg mobs, and can even deal with silver mobs without too much effort. But as a good tank, should I really be grabbing aggro of all silver mobs as well? Or is leaving them for the DPS to handle just fine? Generally I just make sure no one is beating on the healer, so they are free to heal whatever damage is going around.
What are others doing, and what would be considered 'expected'? Powertech if it matters....