I have Elara at influence lvl 18.. We are I think married or engaged to be not sure which.
The problem is that courting gifts do not work at all with her at this point.
Which kinda got my goat seeing as I acquired a multitude of those artifact quality Gree Mind Link devices (courting gifts)
So now I am saving those for some other characters companion romance option, when I was hoping to get Elara a few more influence levels..