Seems to me you will never be happy then. Try this: Don't live for a game! I have a family and a career, living in any game will not supplant that. I'm not saying you don't excel at life, you might . . . The thing is, I waited a long time for this game to come out after the death of SWG. It is what I expected, a Star Wars skin on a wildly popular game; World of Warcraft. If that wasn't the aim the studios and developers would be wildly stupid.
I think what you mean to say is that the studios and developers lacked forward thinking to break out of the box of World of Warcraft and maybe a little SWG. If that is the case I agree. However, with a multi-million dollar pricetag, it is hard to argue making decisions using evidenced indicators of popularity and potential for growth.
I think that while KOTOR was popular and the story arcs in this game are interesting it really lacks immersion. A large part of this is due to graphics are sub Star Wars Galaxies and certainly only having the beaten trail to follow. I think Lucas could have better trusted his legacy to Microsoft. I think the BioWare crew had KOTOR blinders on. Fresh thought on a new Star Wars MMO would have been better, or, if not, a polished version of SWG without all of the tweaks to incorporate a wildly popular game (WOW) into an existing game.