I love not having it, people are forced to be friendly and polite and actually TALK to other people.

As far as I know Aim. Cunning is for smugglers?

People like to complain.

Everyone makes mistakes when they're new, my first MMO (Star Wars Galaxies) I stayed in Mos Eisley for months (I was an Artisan so no real need to leave) I wasn't even sure there was anything else out there! Eventually I realised there were other towns and cities and started taking shuttles to them but I never left a city for probably 6 months for fear of something big killing me.

Helmet Level.

If someone is new to MMOs or just MMOs with a "Need/Greed" system I think it's pretty excusable if they roll need on items not needed, but only up to a certain point. I imagine most people will have experienced the system a bit by level 20 or so, by the time level 50 comes around (which, lets face it, is where anyone would really care about getting the best items, why go off on one about a level 10 item that will be replaced in 5 minutes) people should understand the system and it becomes a little less excusable to roll need on items that aren't needed or even usable at all. But at the end of the day, it's a game, if you don't get the item that you've been searching for, shrug, swear, punch your wall if it's all that important to you and try again, don't start insulting and abusing people, it's not your god given right to have that item. If they are out to piss people off then people just won't group with them. Get angry and they've won.