I've run into this in every MMO I've played. I don't care who the person is who is fighting near a node, Republic or Empire, I'll help them kill what their fighting and then wait and see what they do before snagging it. I only stood by and watched when I was on Alderaan, since in a few areas I couldn't help them kill NPC friendly to me (as much as I wanted to...stinkin' stuck up Alderaanians. I hope your planet gets asploded).