100% agree. I feel like a Kirby vacuum salesman. There would be a reason I do not work professionally as a door to door salesman. I hate solicitation.
In fact, as a gamer, I am generally anti-social when it comes to the telephone and internet. I just want to have some time to play my game and enjoy. Who are these real life people trying to call me on the phone to go out for a drink or to play some pool at the tavern?
The last thing I want to do in my game would be to solicit complete strangers to come play with me. Trying to give them the hard sell, I can DPS, I can Tank. Good loot to be found. You help me I will help you, etc.
When it comes down to wasting my time standing around looking for a group or continuing on my solo quests, well the solo quests win. Otherwise I would just pick up the phone and be down at the tavern playing pool in :15 minutes with a buddy. Much better than spamming chat channels for an hour to find nobody.
Kind of the same as a vacuum salesman. After a few days of wasting my time and money, it was pointless to knock on another door to try to make the sale. I suck at solicitation!